It’s in our nature to judge the people around us. If they ignore our wishes, we believe they are disrespectful. If they don’t watch their children, we conclude they are unfit parents. If we catch them cheating, we assume we know their reasons. But what happens when we finally stop for a moment to judge our own lives? It can be painful to step back and see what we’ve been doing and even more painful to realize we have no intention of stopping.